Birth date: Aug 18, 1958 Death date: Jun 18, 2014
Deborah Lynn Wilson, 55, passed away June 18, 2014. She was born August 18, 1958 in Dallas, Texas. She was preceded in death by her first husband, Richard Sawyer. Debby moved to Manatee County in 1999 from High Springs, Florida. Read Obituary
I lost my father as a teenager and that was so hard, but losing my mom has been unbearable. Most people will remember her laugh, it was so special and contagious but what I remember most is the smile that came with the laugh, and I like to think that is something I share with her. My mom was a strong woman who never let anyone get her down, but she also was the most kind, generous person I knew. If you needed anything sh would go out of her way to help you get it and even when things werent going well she always tried to do the right thing. My mom loved deeply and she loved us all. Her and I did not live near each other but we did not let that stop us from being close. We talked almost every morning on our ways to work and most evenings while we cooked (or in my case I ordered out or heated up). She was my confidont, my cookbook, my mentor, my friend, my role model, my shoulder to cry on, my MOTHER...my world and without her I feel like my world is falling apart.
When I was little she told me I could be or do anything I wanted, I just had to work hard enough and not let anything get in my way. She taught me to love learning and never give up on my dreams. When Jeff proposed I was 22 and I had no idea what my future would look like because I hadn't thought too far past college, the youth are nearsighted even when their vision is perfect. She told me, If you love him, marry him, NOTHING else matters (like money, ceremonies, dresses) and so I threw a bunch of what if's at her, what if we end up hating each other, and she said don't worry about that, that is what divorce is for. She was always practical and helped me put things into perspective but never put down any of my dreams or aspirations. I called her one day and said I think I want to buy a new Mustang Car and she said Go for it!, so I did, and even though it was expensive and impractical an I oly kept it for 18 months, I followed my heart and never regretted it. My mom taught me the importance of working hard and enjoying life, she taught me to put my family first and that experiences and the gift of your attention and time mean more than any empty present. She was always there for me to listen, talk, play, give advice, or just confide in.
Even though I feel like my world is falling in on me and i know she was taken too soon, and I want to scream about how unfair this is, and just crawl into bed and never come out. I won't. My mom taught me to be strong. I will not let my world crumble even though the center is gone because just as she was the center of my world I plan to be the center of my daughter, Eleanor's world and teach her all the things her MoMo taught me. My mom is gone but she will never be forgotten, her spirit and memory will live on in all of us. Please do not hesitate to talk about her or share your memories of her with me, I may cry but I want to remember her, Always.
We are shocked and mourn the loss of such a sweet and loving person-
no--this was not your time to go. Our thoughts and prayers are with John and his family.
Your neighbors
Mark, Tanja, Emma & Buster
We got to know Debby when we first came to Florida from the UK in 2005. She always made us feel at home when we called in at Woody's and we will always remember her infectious laugh. Whenever anyone mentioned Woody's they always talked about Debby. To us she made the place. We are so pleased that we had the opportunity of knowing her. Her warmth and her joy of life will be sadly missed.
Maureen and Paul
Debbie was a wonderful neighbor. My wife Megan and I would see her and John working in the yard, always taking care of it. She always smiled and was so friendly. We pray for God's peace and comfort for John and their family. We will miss her greatly!
Tim & Meg
Debbie was a great confidant and friend. I used to visit her in the morning when she was just opening the bar and drink coffee. It was nice and quiet and we could speak freely as no one was there. She was always encouraging me to do things because life is too short. Oh how true. I shared this toast with her and she liked it so I will share it here- Laugh your heart out. ....Dance in the rain......Cherish the moment......Ignore the pain....Live, Love, Laugh....Forgive&Forget....Life's too short to live with regrets. I will cherish your friendship forever my friend. Love....Katie Barretto
To John and Debbie's family - Our condolences. Debbie is in the loving hands of our Lord, but that doesn't make it easier for those left behind. Take comfort that one day you shall be together again and that until that time she is watching and guiding you from above. Debbie was a wonderful woman who shared herself and her love for others. Thank you Debbie for caring for my sons as your own. ~ Bobbi & Bill Rodgers
Debby's sweet personality and wonderful smile lives on in her daughter, Jessica and granddaughter Ella. Her beautiful strawberry blonde hair is Ella's hair color.
